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"A household based in north London is looking for an extraordinary and skilled tutor to assist their youngest child on his initial journey to becoming an British gentleman."

When reading this post, you might naturally skip the phrase "initial stages" as mere an expression.

Yet, it might be the most important element of this distinctive position posting, as it seeks to hire a teacher for a infant.

Many of submissions have already been submitted since the unidentified family posted their request for the £180k-a-year tutor, who needs to be "someone very special".

Over the last few weeks, the listing has attracted interest throughout the news, with numerous asking why?

Innovative Idea

Adam Caller, CEO and founder of Tutors International, which is helping the family in their hunt, explained that in spite of first doubt, he viewed the concept "forward-looking", and "innovative".

When he met the family, he said they understood the atypical aspect of their request, and how immature their son is.

However, they stated that they "were unwilling to delay any longer" to engage a tutor, as they had held off until their elder sibling was five, and by that age "cultural bias had by then taken hold".

What precisely did the family indicate by "cultural predisposition"?

It's "all-encompassing", he answered. "The manner you eat, the way you speak".

He stated the older sibling had picked up "very nuanced, body language" from the family, and had adopted their cultural norms. The family informed him they did not want history to happen again with their new baby.

The strategy: To hire a British tutor, who must speak with RP, to shape the baby right from the beginning.

Osmotic Learning

"A great deal of the education at the outset here is rather acquired indirectly," stated the CEO.

It's through this subtle influence that the family are hoping the child will pick up the British traits they wish to instil.

The consultant explained the tutor needed to be somebody who went to "the appropriate educational institutions – the same kinds of schools as the family aspire to send their son to".

"The educator simply needs to be the right kind of person, they'll be carrying out things they aren't even aware they're doing, effortlessly," he added.

Expense Not a Factor

The family explained to him the chosen tutor should ideally also have familiarity of or interest in riding, winter sports, the arts and musical activities so as to influence the child in a wide range of passions.

More than that though, he explained the family wanted the tutor to enrol the child on a selection of courses so the child would be "equestrian training and picking up an instrument by the time they are around three years old".

In the family's view, assisting their son develop into a "English gentleman" will bring about accomplishment and open doors.

"Taking into account the advantages and disadvantages of that, because it's definitely a class statement," he adds.

Yet, notwithstanding all this instruction in "Britishness", might the child absorb so-called cultural influence from the globally influenced family he lives with in any case?

"Absolutely", answered Adam. "The parents understand this may not work, but they've simply adopted the perspective of, 'let's give it a go and let's go as early as we can', because the cost of it is not a concern," he said.

Idealistic and Unrealistic

There are some in the education sector who share these reservations.

Another CEO, chief executive of an educational organization, who supplies individual instructors, commented that "the process of adopting dual cultures, or actually, becoming oneself, is something that must be lived into, not manufactured."

Peter explained that he had emigrated from China to the United Kingdom at the time of 7 years old, and had been brought up knowing and living dual heritages. He progressed to study at Cambridge University.

"The idea that one individual can act as a embodiment of Britishness, someone who can possibly transfer the attributes of a British gentleman to a 12-month-old child, seems to me naive and impractical," he stated.

"From my perspective, employing a distinctly English tutor from early childhood will will not necessarily achieve the outcome they hope for.

"I wasn't provided with such a figure, and nevertheless I have been fortunate enough to experience several of the experiences they aspire for their son."

He continued: "The reality is, self-identity cannot be dictated from the outside; it must be chosen, and it must come from within."

Acquiring Englishness

Of course, English culture is something the expert believes can be taught – and sold.

"I think the fact that the international society regards us in this respect is something that we should be cherishing|valuing|appreciating